Peaceful Family

One minute read.

Daily Reading: Nehemiah 5:14-7:73, 1 Corinthians 8:1-13. Psalm 33:1-11, Proverbs 21:8-10

Daily Verse: “It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.” Prov. 21:9

Peaceful family.

No one wants to live in a quarrelsome environment with people fighting. Giving a tennis lesson recently, after hearing kids playing loudly, my young student told me about the screaming they hear from their neighbor’s house regularly.

“They called the cops on their daughter one night; yeah, it’s really bad.”

Homes full of strife tend to overflow into the neighborhood around them. Creating a peaceful environment takes work. My mom made her home welcoming to all; she taught me to do the same. Maintaining an orderly household and keeping things neat pleases Ron and makes him want to come home after a long day’s work.

Create a welcoming environment, and people will come. But if constant arguing and strife fill a household, no one wants to enter it. Peaceful families keep the Lord at their center, following His commandments to develop a refuge for those living there.

Promote peace today, don’t allow quarreling to push people away.

Lord, thank You for guiding us to develop a peaceful household for our families. Help us promote peace, not only in our homes but also in the world around us. Give us the words to say that will welcome people into our homes and Your Kingdom. IJNIP. Amen

Patient Planning

One minute read.

Daily Reading: Nehemiah 3:15-5:13, 1 Corinthians 7:25-40, Psalm 32:1-11, Proverbs 21:5-7

Daily Verse: “The plans of the diligent lead surely to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty.” Prov. 21:5

Patient planning.

Without a plan, nothing ever happens. Builders can’t build a house without a blueprint. Travelers can’t go on a trip without an itinerary. And financial planners can’t create wealth without a budget. No matter the project or goal, you must have a plan.

One of my favorite memories of our honeymoon happened on the drive home when we created our first budget, one we still follow. Each month, we tithe first, save second and spend third. Approaching our eleventh wedding anniversary, we continue to build our retirement, save money for emergencies and what we want to do and live within our means.

Each of us has limited resources of time and treasure. We either manage our resources, or they control us. Don’t let life slip away; plan for what you want to do, then follow it. Living abundantly requires patient planning.

Spend time praying about your future goals. Ask God to help you develop a plan to attain them. Then one day at a time, follow your plans patiently.

Lord, forgive us for not planning well. Help us develop a plan that allows us to live abundantly. Direct our paths, open the doors we need opened, and let us live our lives purposely for You.  IJNIP. Amen

Arrogant Pride

One minute read.

Daily Reading: Nehemiah 1:1-3:14 1 Corinthians 7:1-24 Psalm 31:19-24 Proverbs 21:4

Daily Verse: “Haughty eyes and a proud heart, the lamp of the wicked, are sin.” Prov. 21:4

Arrogant pride.

At the root of all sin, pride lurks. Webster’s 1828 Dictionary defines pride well:

Inordinate self-esteem: an unreasonable conceit of one’s own superiority in talents, beauty, wealth, accomplishments, rank or elevation in office, which manifests itself in lofty airs, distance, reserve, and often in contempt of others.

Selfishness and pride go hand in hand. Pride demands its own way, not caring about the other person’s needs.  Selfishness puts our needs before anyone else’s. Both put the spotlight on us, leaving out God and others.

“Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.” Phil. 2:3-4

Becoming more like Christ means taking a back seat to pride, letting go of our selfish desires, and putting the interests of others before us. God created us equal; we should live that way.

Lord, forgive us for our prideful ways. Help us see others as You see them. Let us serve You well as we put ourselves last and others first. Humble us when we need humbled, and keep us on the straight and narrow. IJNIP. Amen

Priority of Righteousness

One minute read.

Daily Reading: Ezra 10:1-44, 1 Corinthians 6:1-20, Psalm 31:9-18, Proverbs 21:3

Daily Verse: “To do righteousness and justice is more acceptable to the Lord than sacrifice.” Prov. 21:3

Priority of righteousness.

Doing the right thing matters to the Lord more than sacrificing for Him.  Sacrifice without obedience means nothing. Becoming more like Jesus means doing the right thing repeatedly.

“If it were easy, everyone would do it. Hard is what makes it great.” Jimmy Dugan, “A League of Their Own”

Hearing the above quote often in golf, I didn’t know its origin until now. A League of Their Own told the story of the All-American Girls Professional Baseball League, which existed from 1943-1954 during WWII, saving Major League Baseball. Women stepped into men’s roles while they fought the war; not easy, but great.

Doing hard things makes them great. Consistently taking the high road, forgiving our offenses, praying for our offenders, giving cheerfully, and setting a Christ-like example takes work. Jesus went first and wants us to follow. God never said our journey wouldn’t have potholes; He promised it would.

Practice a do-it-again lifestyle, one right act at a time, and create a legacy.

Lord, forgive us for putting sacrifice before righteous living. Help us today do the right thing, then help us do it again and again. Let us shine our lights brightly as we pursue Jesus and become more like Him.  IJNIP. Amen

Divine Knowledge

One minute read.

Daily Reading: Ezra 8:21-9:15, 1 Corinthians 5:1-13, Psalm 31:1-8, Proverbs 21:1-2

Daily Verse: “Every way of a man is right in his own eyes, but the Lord weighs the heart.” Prov. 21:2

Divine knowledge.

Repeatedly, Solomon reminds us throughout Proverbs that God evaluates the heart, not only our actions. Although we claim pure motives, God knows the truth of our hearts.

Waiting for a permanent location in my crafting business evokes jealousy toward those already established. Praying for the perfect spot, I have mixed emotions. Not wanting others to fail or quit, someone must for me to gain space.

I experienced the same feelings when my career at Nautica began. Starting as a temporary position, for me to acquire a permanent job, someone had to quit or get fired. In my case, the person on maternity leave, creating my temporary position, decided to stay home with her baby, and the company hired me full-time. A win-win for both of us.

Going through these situations helps purify my heart. God reveals the impurities, helps me gain perspective, and grows me as He weighs my heart. Waiting on the Lord causes change.

Divine knowledge comes from above. God knows our hearts and directs our steps accordingly.

Lord, forgive us the impurities of our hearts. Help us gain a divine perspective as we submit our lives to You. All good things come to those who expectantly wait. IJNIP. Amen

Strength and Honor

One minute read.

Daily Reading: Ezra 7:1-8:20, 1 Corinthians 4:1-21, Psalm 30:1-12, Proverbs 20:28-30

Daily Verse: “The glory of young men is their strength, but the splendor of old men is their gray hair.” Prov. 20:29

Strength and honor.

Different stages of life have different glories. Young people have more strength and stamina than older people. But people with gray hair have more wisdom because of their life experiences.

In my youth, I could work 12-hour days, hang out with friends afterward, get a few hours of sleep, and do it again. Now, if lucky, I work 12 hours and hit the couch for 8-9 hours of sleep. And I can’t do it on repeat for several days in a row. My last Sabbath day included a five-hour nap.

However, I’ve learned to work smarter, not harder. I may not have the strength I did in my younger years, but I’m producing more because I manage time better, don’t repeat mistakes I used to make, and know when to walk away from a project or idea.

Valuing people for their strengths means understanding their stage of life. Expecting the same thing of a 20-year-old person as a 60-year-old individual makes no sense. 

Enjoy your stage of life. Never stop learning; keep moving forward, and we’ll meet in heaven one day.

Lord, forgive us for putting unrealistic expectations on people. Help us on our journey as we embrace our stage of life, continuing to learn and grow as we follow You.  Bless our efforts, multiply our work, and continue to lead us onward. IJNIP. Amen

Evaluate Motives

One minute read.

Daily Reading: Ezra 4:24-6:22, 1 Corinthians 3:5-23, Psalm 29:1-11, Proverbs 20:26-27

Daily Verse: “The spirit of man is the lamp of the Lord, searching all his innermost parts.” Prov. 20:27

Evaluate motives.

Acquiring the Holy Spirit through belief in Jesus helps us evaluate our actions and motives. Our inner spiritual part desires to please and know God. Seeking spirituality means fulfilling the desire to connect with the Lord, which only comes through faith in Jesus. Nothing else can fill the void.

Accepting the Holy Spirit into our lives allows God to search our hearts, which in turn helps us know ourselves and our shortcomings.

Imagine a computer infected with a bug, causing it not to function properly. Using a security scan to identify and debug the machine causes it to run as intended. In the same way, the Holy Spirit identifies the bugs in our hearts and helps us get rid of them, making us more like Christ and more equipped to do God’s work.

Let the Holy Spirit search your heart, identifying and helping you overcome the bugs. Becoming more aware of our shortcomings helps us live free from self-deception and indifference.

Lord, thank You for the gift of the Holy Spirit. Search our hearts and reveal the bugs. Help us become more like Christ as we cleanse our spirits, become more self-aware of our actions, and responding like Jesus instead. IJNIP. Amen

Divine Providence

One minute read.

Daily Reading: Ezra 3:1-4:23, 1 Corinthians 2:6-3:4, Psalm 28:1-9, Proverbs 20:24-25

Daily Verse: “A man’s steps are from the Lord; how then can man understand his way?” Prov. 20:25

Divine Providence.

God organizes our steps. Ordinary days when everything goes as planned happen because the Lord lets them. And those days when everything goes awry, also because of the Lord.

Writing on the Fourth of July, I had a tennis lesson scheduled for 7:30 this morning. Waking bright and early, I read my Bible, wrote a devotional, polyurethaned boards for my crafting business, and went to the tennis courts to sit for twenty-five minutes, waiting for my student, who never showed nor texted.

At that moment, I had a choice, get mad or accept God had different things in mind for me. Embracing the free moments, I caught up on email, answered texts, packed up my stuff, and headed home, happy to have a few extra minutes to myself.

The Lord knows what the day holds for us before the sun rises. Instead of rebelling against unexpected changes, embrace them as divine providence, accepting God has something else for you to do.

We don’t need to understand every step; we just need to take them.

Lord, thank You for organizing our steps and leading us on the adventure of a lifetime. Let us follow easily, accepting unexpected changes and moving in different directions when You call us too. Don’t let us miss the divine appointments You have for us. IJNIP. Amen

Just Deliverance

One minute read.

Daily Reading: Ezra 1:1-2:70, 1 Corinthians 1:18-2:5, Psalm 27:7-14, Proverbs 20:22-23

Daily Verse: “Do not say, “I will repay evil”; wait for the Lord, and he will deliver you.” Prov. 20:22

Just deliverance.

Leaving retribution to the Lord takes effort. When someone causes pain, my initial reaction wants to strike back and hurt them. But God doesn’t want us to take revenge; He wants us to leave it up to Him.

In all truth, we each deserve punishment for our actions. Although we received justification, made right through Jesus, the process of sanctification doesn’t end until God calls us home. Our goal, following Jesus, remains to same, become more like Him, sanctification. None of us will reach perfection until we enter the pearly gates; until then, we will battle our sinful nature, submitting it to God and allowing Him to mold us into more Christ-like behavior.

We become more like Jesus when we choose not to take revenge for hurtful actions. Showing undeserved grace to others mimics Christ, who did the same for us. Only by submitting our lives to God and allowing the Holy Spirit to lead us will we become more like Jesus, offering grace instead of punishment.

Trust God to deliver people, whatever that may look like. Remember the grace Jesus showed you, then share it with others. 

Lord, thank You for the grace given us by Jesus’ actions on the cross. Please help us to extend mercy to others when they cause us harm. Let us become more like Christ every day as we pursue Him with our whole hearts. IJNIP. Amen

Unsatisfying Prosperity

One minute read.

Daily Reading: 2 Chronicles 35:1-36:23, 1 Corinthians 1:1-17, Psalm 27:1-6, Proverbs 20:20-21

Daily Verse: “An inheritance gained hastily in the beginning will not be blessed in the end.” Prov. 20:21

Unsatisfying prosperity.

Depending on the study, the research found 33-70% of lottery winners go bankrupt within 3-5 years. Gaining money quickly causes reckless spending. Greed desires more money, and leads to destructive behavior.

News4Jax feature article, Rip Up the Winning Ticket? 5 Reasons Why Winning the Lotter Can Destroy Lives, says 70% of lottery winners go bankrupt because:

  1. People will ask you for money.
  2. Become a target for crooks.
  3. Strained relationships.
  4. Guilt and boredom.
  5. Careless spending.

Scripture tells us the “LOVE of money is the root of all evil” (1 Tim. 6:10). Managing finances requires God’s help. Applying and obeying Biblical principles to our budget will keep us from falling prey to the mighty dollar allure. 

Instead of letting money control us, use God’s word to control it.

Lord, forgive us for letting the love of money come before You.  Give us the tools necessary to manage Your blessings well. Let us live prosperously as we follow You.  IJNIP. Amen