Avoid Dangerous Relationships

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Daily Reading: Deuteronomy 34:1-Joshua 2:24, Luke 13:22-14:6, Psalm 79:1-13, Proverbs 12:26

Daily Verse: “One who is righteous is a guide to his neighbor, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.” Prov. 12:26

Avoid dangerous relationships.

“If so-and-so jumped off a bridge, would you?” Mom used to ask when she didn’t approve of someone. She had a way of discerning my friendships, those that built me up and the ones that tore me down. And Mom always let me know her thoughts on my companions.

As Christ’s followers, He calls us to love everyone. But we must understand that not everyone makes wise decisions. Loving them doesn’t mean we must do what others do. 

Living for the applause of nail-scarred hands will cause us to go against the world’s ways. Putting Jesus first in our lives helps us discern the actions of those around us. People who put Christ first will produce the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

If you don’t see Christ’s fruit in someone’s life, don’t follow their path. Lovers of Jesus will help you become more like Him, not take you in the opposite direction. Choose wisely whose advice you seek, don’t let people lead you astray.

Lord, forgive us when we follow the wrong people. Please give us discernment to choose wisely whose advice we take. Help us become more like Jesus as we follow Him closely. In all things, let You receive the glory and honor. IJNIP. Amen

Prayer Overcomes Anxiety

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Daily Reading: Deuteronomy 33:1-29, Luke 13:1-21, Psalm 78:65-72, Proverbs 12:25

Daily Verse: “Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad.” Prov. 12:25

Prayer overcomes anxiety.

Learning to identify and deal with anxiety will bring peace. Writing “Three Word Prayers for Everyday Living” began my emotional healing journey. When anxiety plagues me, I know how to respond and work through them.

Anxious thoughts center on the past or future, not the present. Dwelling on negative possibilities that could happen or past events that did occur rob us of the present moment. Becoming aware of our thoughts help us identify and deal with anxiety, allowing us to become fully present.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Phil. 4:6-7

Paul’s antidote for anxiety involves turning our worrisome thoughts into prayer, focusing on our blessings, and giving our cares to the Lord, allowing Jesus’s peace to replace our anxiety.

Discover God’s peace by turning anxious thoughts into prayer, asking Christ for His peace, and becoming present now.

Lord, forgive us for letting anxiety control our hearts. Please help us identify and deal with anxious thoughts by lifting them to You in prayer. Remind us of our blessings, and let us develop an attitude of gratitude, discovering Your peace that surpasses all understanding. IJNIP.Amen

Diligent Will Rule

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Daily Reading: Deuteronomy 32:28-52, Luke 12:35-59, Psalm 78:56-64, Proverbs 12:24

Daily Verse: “The hand of the diligent will rule, while the slothful will be put to forced labor.” Prov. 12:24

Diligent hands rule.

Hard work and determination do pay off, unlike laziness.  Watching a docuseries on the lives of top professional golfers gave me a glimpse at their diligence.  Thousands of hours of practice, exercise, and mental preparation go into making them the best in the world.

As a spectator, we see the results of the effort for a few hours on a Sunday afternoon.  Not seeing the diligence, just the outcome.

No one achieves success without effort.  Lazy people end up working for the diligent.  To reach the top, you must do the climb.

Each step takes us further on our journey, but we won’t go anywhere if we refuse to walk.  One page at a time, people write books.  One task at a time, people become the boss.  If you don’t do the work, you won’t receive the reward.

Lazy people work for the diligent.

Lord, forgive us for expecting the reward without effort.  Please give us a clear vision of our path to reach our goals.  Help us become diligent in our work, honoring You in all we do.  IJNIP. Amen

Wisdom Restrains Words

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Daily Reading: Deuteronomy 31:1-32:27, Luke 12:8-34, Psalm 78:32-55, Proverbs 12:21-23

Daily Verse: “A prudent man conceals knowledge, but the heart of fools proclaims folly.” Prov. 12:23

Wisdom restrains words.

Only some things we think need said. Exemplifying wisdom means we exercise restraint when speaking, taking time to think about the impact of our words before saying them. Foolish people say whatever comes to mind without using a filter.

In my younger days, I used words foolishly. My opinion mattered more than others, and I had all the answers, so I said whatever came to mind. As a result, I damaged relationships, some still broken, and caused myself much harm.

Hindsight gives us a clear vision. Now I can see the folly of my words, and as much as I wish I could take them back, I can’t. Learning wisdom means I no longer say what comes to mind, restraining myself and thinking about the impact of my words, which helps me have healthier relationships.

Using scripture as a filter for our speech helps our language become uplifting and encouraging at all times. If what we want to say doesn’t help, then don’t say it.

Live life fully by developing healthy relationships using wisdom to know what to say and when.

Lord, forgive us for speaking before thinking. Please help us guard our mouths, saying only those things which uplift and encourage others. Let us build healthy relationships one conversation at a time. IJNIP. Amen

Truth Doesn’t Die

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Daily Reading: Deuteronomy 29:1-30:20, Luke 11:37-12:7, Psalm 78:1-31, Proverbs 12:19-20

Daily Verse: “Truthful lips endure forever, but a lying tongue is but for a moment.” Prov. 12:19

Truth doesn’t die.

“Love your enemy as yourself. There’s only one guy that ever preached that, and that’s Jesus. And there’s only one guy saying that today and that’s still Jesus.” Kesley Grammar, A Jesus Revolution Exclusive

God’s word stands the test of time because of its truths. As Kelsey Grammar pointed out in his interview about “Jesus Revolution,” the true story of revival in the late ’60s and ’70s, Jesus doesn’t change. What Christ said 2000 years ago remains true, and He’s the only one still saying it.

In a world full of false narratives, find truth in scripture. Applying the teachings of Jesus helps quickly identify the lies of the world. Standing on a firm foundation means knowing which rock to attach yourself. God doesn’t change; in Him, you can stand firm.

Following Jesus leads you on the path of truth. Christ faced political unrest, zealous religious leaders, and an unstable world like ours. Jesus’ counter-cultural teachings teach us how to respond to the chaos and find His peace, surpassing all understanding.

Lord, forgive us for the times we’ve succumbed to lies. Please help us stay centered on Jesus today, applying His teachings and truths to our lives. In all things, let us honor and serve You well. IJNIP. Amen

Hasty Words Harm

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Daily Reading: Deuteronomy 28:1-68, Luke 11:14-36, Psalm 77:1-20, Proverbs 12:18

Daily Verse: “There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.” Prov. 12:18

Hasty words harm.

Speaking quickly causes me issues. With each year that passes, I learn to hold my tongue more and more. James gives us explicit directions on how we should respond to people.

“Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.” James 1:19-20

Applying James’ wisdom to our responses will help us develop healthy, life-giving relationships. Listen quickly instead of speaking. Don’t let anger control you, but rather, control your emotions.

In today’s world, people respond quickly on social media, allowing their emotions to guide them. Whether spoken or written, start implementing time-outs in your response. Count to ten, walk away from the situation, and find a way to stop making quick replies.

Being quick to listen and slow to speak will help you become more like Jesus, building relationships instead of destroying them.

Lord, forgive us for responding in haste and allowing our emotions to control us. As we move through our day, help us become quick to listen and slow to speak. Give us the self-control necessary to respond like Jesus. IJNIP. Amen

Wisdom Takes Advice

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Daily Reading: Deuteronomy 26:1-27:26, Luke 10:38-11:13, Psalm 76:1-12, Proverbs 12:15-17

Daily Verse: “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.” Prov. 12:15

Wisdom takes advice.

“Call the doctor on call,” my friend said. Struggling to decide what to do when my leg unexpectedly swelled four times its size, I called Lori. Friends since childhood, I trusted her advice.

Lori’s wise words saved my life. Her advice led me to the lifesaving procedure that identified and removed the blood clot from my leg. In my panic, I struggled to think clearly, but she didn’t.

God never meant for us to do life alone. In chapter two of Genesis, the Lord tells Adam, “It’s not good for man to be alone,” giving him Eve as a helpmate. Seeking advice from others helps us makes better decisions. 

Lean into the wise people in your life. Seek their advice and listen to what they say. Build a network of Christ’s followers to rely on when the storm winds blow. Become wiser because you listen to the advice of others.

Wisdom listens to others; fools rely only on themselves.

Lord, forgive us for not seeking advice from others. Give us discernment to know whose input we should follow. Don’t let us become fools, relying on our limited perspectives. Surround us with people of wisdom we can depend upon in times of need. IJNIP. Amen

Lies Create Chaos

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Daily Reading: Deuteronomy 23:1-25:19, Luke 10:13-37, Psalm 75:1-10, Proverbs 12:12-14

Lies create chaos.

Gratefully, I learned young lies only cause trouble. Telling the truth challenges the best of us, but in the long run, it pays off. You don’t have to remember what you said when you tell the truth. But when false tales come from your mouth, you must remember what you said and to whom.

“The truth is always quiet; it’s the lies that are loud.” Chuck Smith, Jesus Revolution

False narratives prevail in our society today. Social media enables lies to spread quickly without fact-checking. Often, people read the headlines without reading the story, believing a few words as truth. A bold type doesn’t equal honesty.

Over time, truth reveals itself. A cheating spouse eventually gets caught. A child with jam on their face will insist they didn’t eat the jelly.   And false narratives always get exposed in due time.

Speak the truth and escape trouble. Don’t let false tales lead you into dark places. Freedom comes with honest answers.

Lord, forgive us for lying and not using our words well. Please help us speak the truth in love, using language to uplift and encourage all we meet. Don’t let us fall into the traps wicked words bring. Instead, let us live fully in Jesus as we pursue truth through Him. IJNIP. Amen

Diligent Work Pays

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Daily Reading: Deuteronomy 21:1-22:30, Luke 9:51-10:12, Psalm 74:1-23, Proverbs 12:11

Daily Verse: “Whoever works his land will have plenty of bread, but he who follows worthless pursuits lacks sense.” Prov. 12:11

Diligent work pays.

Satisfaction comes from a hard day’s work. Not only does gainful employment ensure food on the table, but it gives us a sense of accomplishment, building self-esteem and confidence. Our forefathers worked diligently to build a country that thrives on individuals’ ability to support themselves.

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” Col. 3:23

God provides all our needs, no matter who signs our earthly paycheck. Ultimately, the Lord’s our boss, He sees all we do and the effort we put into it. When we slack in our duties, we disappoint God.

Each day I thank God for the ability to work, physically and mentally. Not using the gifts God gives us for His glory detracts from our purpose. Becoming more like Christ means using our talents wisely, working diligently, and reaping the rewards of our efforts.

God blesses the work of our hands, providing our needs. Lack of effort leads to worthless pursuits and empty plates.

Lord, forgive our laziness. Motivate us to work hard for You in all things. May our efforts please You and fill our tables with Your blessings. In all things, let us honor and glorify You to the world, representing Christ well. IJNIP. Amen

God Loves Animals

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Daily Reading: Deuteronomy 18:1-20:20, Luke 9:28-50, Psalm 73:1-28, Proverbs 12:10

Daily Verse: “Whoever is righteous has regard for the life of his beast, but the mercy of the wicked is cruel.” Prov. 12:10

God loves animals.

As a dog mom of two rescues, I love pets. The comfort I gain from snuggling with my pups far outweighs their imperfections. But both dogs started life out with people who didn’t treat them well.

Little Sophia, only 7 pounds, spent the first two years of her life neglected in a cage. Neighbors finally called animal control, who rescued her emancipated body, weighing half of her normal weight. To this day, she shrinks in fright from strangers, even though we’ve adored her for ten years.

Rocco ended up abandoned on the street to fend for himself. When we rescued him, he needed much love and care to bring him back to health.

How people treat animals shows their heart. God created the beasts of the earth and gave us dominion over them. Treating them poorly doesn’t mirror God’s love for His creation.

Animals sense a soft heart and respond accordingly. Mistreating the beasts of the earth doesn’t reflect God’s mercy. But loving them well does.

Lord, thank You for our pets and the love they share with us. Help us care for Your creation well, honoring You with our words and actions. In all things, let us glorify You with our acts of love. IJNIP. Amen