Contempt and Shame

One minute read.

Daily Reading: 2 Kings 13:1-14:29, Acts 18:23-19:12, Psalm 146:1-10, Proverbs 18:2-3

Daily Verse: “When wickedness comes, contempt comes also, and with dishonor comes disgrace.” Prov. 18:3

Contempt and shame.

Punishment for wickedness comes naturally from the community. Once people learn about the treachery, they turn their backs on the perpetrator. Scoundrels eventually get what they deserve, but sometimes it takes time.

We see this theme in movies often.   Bad Education, starring Hugh Jackman, told the story of a school administrator who embezzled money. The film begins with everyone loving his smooth personality and positive ways, but by the end, the truth comes out, and the community turns on him. Wickedness exposed.

Volunteering with the 1st-3rd graders, studying Eve and her life-changing bite, one of my young friends asked me if “God created sin?”  I explained that He didn’t create sin, but God did give us free will, which means we have a choice in what we do, just like Eve did when she bit the forbidden fruit.

“That’s good. I didn’t like thinking about God creating sin,” she responded.

We choose our actions, and we suffer the consequences that go with them.

Thank You for loving us, Lord, even when we make bad decisions. Help us to honor and serve You well today. Let us make good decisions that bring life to those around us. IJNIP. Amen

Self-Centered and Unreasonable

One minute read.

Daily Reading: 2 Kings 10:32-12:21, Acts 18:1-22, Psalm 145:1-21, Proverbs 18:1

Daily Verse: “Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment.” Prov. 18:1

Self-centered and Unreasonable.

“The Unabomber died today. Do you remember him?” Ron said. How could I forget the man who committed 16 bombings, killing three, maiming others, and terrorizing the country for almost two decades from the late 70s to the mid-90s? When the FBI captured him, he lived in a 10 x 14 ft. plywood and tarpaper cabin.   An extreme example of an antisocial person who isolates himself seeks his desires, and goes against sound judgment.

Today’s verse refers to an enemy of society, usually caused by strong differences in belief. Ted Kaczynski, the Unabomber, had journals showing his motives for making homemade bombs and mailing them came from petty grievances and the wish for vengeance, according to AP news.

People can become so convicted of their beliefs that they take extreme measures. Thankfully, most don’t go to the extent Kaczynski did, but it happens.

Pray for people to have eyes to see and ears to hear the ways of the Lord. God help them; He’s the only one who can.

Lord, thank You for giving us eyes to see and ears to hear You. We pray for those with issues that cause them to isolate and not listen to sound judgment. Please help them, Lord, as only You can. IJNIP. Amen

Restrained Speaking

One minute read.

Daily Reading: 2 Kings 9:14-10:31, Acts 17:1-34, Psalm 144:1-15, Proverbs 17:27-28

Daily Verse: “Whoever restrains his words has knowledge, and he who has a cool spirit is a man of understanding.” Prov. 17:27

Restrained speaking.

Controlling my actions and restraining my tongue don’t come easily for me. My husband’s one reservation about marrying me had to do with my anger issues, which I have worked on immensely in the last decade. Partnering with God and writing a book on how I learned to restrain my words through prayer has helped me find victory.

Running a small crafting business, I received a message that the owner moved my booth and didn’t know what to do with my product. On my way to the store, I realized anger wouldn’t get me anywhere, proof of my growth with God’s help.

Instead of flying off the handle, something I used to do in situations like this, I restrained myself, put my emotions in the back seat, and worked through the problem logically and with kindness. Victory in the Lord comes in all kinds of ways.

Don’t let anger get the best of you—partner with the Lord to learn restraint and remain calm in heated situations. Allow God’s Spirit to guide you, helping you practice self-control and learn how to handle complex challenges differently.

Lord, thank You for the work You do within us. Help us restrain our words and tempers as we deal with challenges. Please give us the strength to respond calmly and logically. Let us not overreact but instead view things from Your perspective. IJNIP. Amen

Improper Punishment

One minute read.

Daily Reading: 2 Kings 8:1-9:13, Acts 16:16-40, Psalm 143:1-12, Proverbs 17:26

Daily Verse: “To impose a fine on a righteous man is not good, nor to strike the noble for their uprightness.” Prov. 17:26

Improper punishment.

Punishing innocent people has consequences we may not see on this side of heaven, but God knows. One of the reasons people falsely accuse others happens because of wrong conclusions. Making assumptions without facts leads to punishing innocent people.

Jumping to conclusions leads to wrong judgments, especially when we base those decisions on surface appearance. As I have confessed, I’m guilty of judging people by appearance because of my jealousy.

One of my biggest lessons came from a friend I thought had everything based on appearance, convicting the innocent. I learned after her passing about the pain and suffering she experienced on Earth. My jealousy closed my eyes to her reality.

Mistakenly punishing innocent people happens every day for a variety of reasons. We must check our hearts before we conclude. Understanding motives and not letting wrong intentions rule our decisions helps us avoid punishing innocent people.

Leading with grace means giving people the benefit of the doubt and will stop us from punishing innocent people.

Lord, forgive us for punishing innocent people. Please search our hearts and reveal any negative motives we may have. Help us draw proper conclusions based on facts and not surface appearances. Let us honor You with our actions. IJNIP. Amen

Bitter Grief

One minute read.

Daily Reading: 2 Kings 6:1-7:20, Acts 15:36-16:15, Psalm 142:1-7, Proverbs 17:24-25

Daily Verse: “A foolish son is a grief to his father and bitterness to her who bore him.” Prov. 17:25

Bitter grief.

Nothing causes me more shame than thinking of the grief I caused my mother in my younger years with my shenanigans. 

“I earned every gray hair I have,” she told me many times. Parents never stop worrying, no matter what the age of their children. In ways, they worry more as kids get older. Someone once told me, “You’re only as happy as your saddest child.”

Since God didn’t bless us with kids, I will never know the truth of that statement. But I pray for parents regularly as they strive to raise their children to the best of their ability.

As a child who made many foolish decisions in my youth, I pray for wandering souls searching for their way. God knows, my mother’s prayers helped save me. Despite my many flaws, her unconditional love helped me find my way back to the Lord.

Don’t give up on your kids. The Lord does work miracles, and you never know when they will decide to make a U-turn and head in a different direction.

Lord, thank You for protecting us from our poor decisions. Praying for parents with wayward children, give them hope for a brighter future. Help the wandering hearts find their way back to You. IJNIP. Amen

Wicked Intent

One minute read.

Daily Reading: 2 Kings 4:18-5:27, Acts 15:1-35, Psalm 141:1-10, Proverbs 17:23

Daily Verse: “The wicked accepts a bribe in secret to pervert the ways of justice.” Prov. 17:23

Wicked intent.

People who secretly accept bribes have evil intent and plan to pervert justice. Through the centuries, politicians have taken bribes for personal gain and public harm. Political sides don’t matter; corruption comes with humanity.

Money talks and everyone has a price. During my retail days, management trained us in vigilance. Even though an employee might have an impeccable record, things happen in life that could change their honorability. For instance, an illness with large medical bills could drive someone to steal. Or developing a drug habit will change a person’s priorities.

One of my saddest moments happened with a wonderful grandma who didn’t pass the background check because of a drug conviction; she took the fall to protect her grandchild. Never in a million years would I have thought her to have a record.

Fleshly desires can cause us to do bad things. Taking bribes to pervert justice falls into that category. We all fall short of the mark; thankfully, God loves us anyway.

Lord, forgive us for falling short of the mark. Help us defeat temptation when it comes our way. Give us the strength to remain strong in the faith when people try to tempt us away from You. IJNIP. Amen

Joyful Heart

One minute read.

Daily Reading: 2 Kings 3:1-4:17, Acts 14:8-28, Psalm 140:1-13, Proverbs 17:22

Daily Verse: “A joyful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” Prov. 17:22

Joyful heart.

Depressed spirits ruin health, but joyful hearts bring health to the bones. As someone who has struggled with depression my entire life, I understand today’s verse entirely.

My husband helped me identify my last bout with depression. After experiencing a life-threatening health crisis, my mind filled with anxious thoughts as I recognized life’s fragility and mortality. Thankfully, God gave me a strong support network of family and friends and an excellent therapist who helped bring joy back to my heart.

Identifying depression in myself challenges me. We can’t always see what others see in us. Thankfully, as a member of God’s family, the Lord gives us community to help us live life to the fullest.

Whether you struggle with depression or not, invest in God’s family. Build a support network by joining a Bible study (small group), intentionally developing friendships with others, and seeking professional help if necessary.

God wants us to live life to the fullest; we can with the support of His family.

Lord, thank You for adopting us into Your family. Please help us develop friendships that will help us live life to the fullest. Give us the courage to seek professional help if necessary. IJNIP. Amen

Arrogant Speech

One minute read.

Daily Reading: 1 2 Kings 1:1-2:25, Acts 13:42-14:7, Psalm 139:1-24, Proverbs 17:19-21

Daily Verse: “Whoever loves transgression loves strife; he who makes his door high seeks destruction.” Prov. 17:19

Arrogant speech.

People bring destruction upon themselves with arrogant speech. Thinking of sports, when someone brags about their ability, they often set themselves up for a fall. 

My husband and I recently watched “Happy Gilmore.”  The comedic golf movie with Adam Sandler, a hockey player turned golf pro, demonstrates what happens to overconfident people. Shooter McGavin, played by Christopher McDonald, portrays the arrogant and contentious golf pro who underestimates his competition. Eventually, the seasoned golfer resorts to cheating to win, which fails.

Sports teach humility, and so does God. Prideful speech leads to downfall.   Our mouths can get us in more trouble than anything else, the gate to what flows from our hearts. Staying humble and closely watching our mouths will keep us from destruction.

Stay humble, don’t fall into the trap of arrogance. Things change quickly; mountaintops lead to valleys, and so does arrogant speech.

Lord, forgive us for bragging. Please help us stay humble as we pursue You, remembering; You made us all equal. Let us love each other well, guard the words that come from our lips, and live peacefully with all. IJNIP. Amen

Loyal Friends

One minute read.

Daily Reading: 1 Kings 22:1-53, Acts 13:16-41, Psalm 138:1-8, Proverbs 17:17-18

Daily Verse: “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” Prov. 17:17

Loyal friends.

God gives us framily, friends that become family. Adversity always exposes the people in your life who have your back. During my hospitalization for a blood clot, friends prayed for me from all over the country. One of my friends, a busy mom of three, found time in her schedule to drive the half-hour, bring me flowers and sit with me. Others dropped their plans and rushed to my bedside—friends who had become framily.

Investing in friendships develops a support system for everyone. Showing up for people in crisis, even if you can’t do anything, strengthens them and displays God’s love. We can’t fix life’s problems, but we can walk through them with others, helping them persevere.

Following Christ adopts us into God’s family and gives us friends who always love. Invest in your framily, build solid and supportive relationships with the people in your life. Show up for them in adversity, walk with them through strife, and set an example of loyal friendship for those around you.

Lord, thank You for the friends we have. Help us love and support them well, developing a framily. As we meet new people, let us love them and draw them into our network, supporting and loving them well for You.  IJNIP. Amen

Inaccessible Wisdom

One minute read.

Daily Reading: 1 Kings 20:1-21:29, Acts 12:24-13:15, Psalm 137:1-9, Proverbs 17:16

Daily Verse: “Why should a fool have money in his hand to buy wisdom when he has no sense?” Prov. 17:16

Inaccessible wisdom.

Fools can’t buy wisdom because they lack the intellect to get it in the first place. During my undergrad years, I acted foolishly. More concerned about my social life than my academic life, I didn’t pay attention in class and wasted the money my mother paid for me to learn wisdom. Because I had my priorities wrong, I couldn’t gain wisdom.

Flash forward twenty-five years when I returned to school for my graduate degree, and life had taught me lessons about priorities. Learning from earlier mistakes, I made the dean’s list every semester and gained much wisdom.

Following Jesus exposes our foolish ways. Don’t give up on people who act irresponsibly. Instead, pray for them like my mother did me. Without a doubt, her prayers helped me find my way back to Jesus and learn wisdom.

People can change. Fools can become wise with Christ. Submitting our lives to Jesus begins a new life, where we leave the old ways behind and embrace a new way of living.

Lord, forgive us our foolish ways. Open our eyes and ears to learn the lessons You want us to know. Help us develop wisdom as we apply Your teachings to our lives. Let us fulfill our purpose as we pursue You vigorously. IJNIP. Amen